Tom Kawczynski - Off the Record

One of the privileges of having been involved in grassroots politics for an extended period of time is that I get invited to see many things that happen behind the scenes.  Not everything, of course, but enough to understand how people think and what motivates them.  It is those things which worry me.

We live in a society replete with metaphors.  We exaggerate casually, and tend to insert drama into everything we say.  I hope that it is only this that I observe when I listen to so many people describe those whom they disagree with in such a hostile fashion.

I don't believe this a nation where we are truly at war with one another, where a neighbor who views things differently is an enemy, where a party that acts in opposition is traitorous, or that people are that awful.  As much as anyone, I believe there are systemic problems that may very well destroy our economy and our way of life, if not corrected.  But I don't think that we, the people, are each other's enemies.

I have many friends who are committed and passionate Democrats.  I have more friends who are Republicans with the same vigor.  They can all be good people, who disagree, and who look for different solutions to problems.  I find that they all are willing to listen to me because I treat them seriously and with respect.  I make my arguments for limited government and personal liberties, and they know what I believe trumps who I associate with, and we value each other.

I do a lot of work with the Tea Party movement, but if they think that change will come by castigating that very large of percentage of Americans who disagree with them as enemies, then they are fools.  If you accept that you cannot persuade someone your ideas are correct when reason is on your side, then you cannot believe in self-governance for people because you are admitting that people can't make those judgments.  It is arrogant, it is divisive, and even in success, it will spring a failure far worse and more radical than what it seeks to remove.

The left is no better, and their current attempts to ram through policies they know that most people don't support only ups the ante in a turf war that keeps growing.  New institutions, allies, spending, and manipulation.  We make new political classes that lack the civility of the parties, and simply seek to force their ends.  Is persuasion truly dead and impossible?  I know so many who think so, and I sometimes feel like one of the last voices of reason.

I am so happy to be an independent because I stopped playing that game.  I am going to say what I think, what I support, and dump the labels.  What does being a conservative mean anyway when one person is a constitutionalist believing in truly limited government, one person wanting a protective theocracy, and yet another a free market extravaganza.  Useless, misleading, and even if most people think they like the term, who can truly tell me what it means?

I imagine, to some, I probably come off sounding like an apologist.  I'm not.  I'm a realist.  I know that for most people, politics is just looking at issues that affect their lives and looking for solutions.  That is the conversation I'm having with people, and I hope we find our future there together.